Wednesday, February 12, 2020

STANDING OUT OF THE CROWD


By Anthony Nana Yaw Dzacka


 







                         

When we say "crowd," there is one major meaning that dwells in the mind: a large number of people. The Collins Study defines a crowd as a large group of people or things, a particular group of people, gathered together in large numbers; pressed together in a confined space; or filled and occupied fully.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being in a crowd. Our society is made up of people, and wherever you go, whether at work, school, or church you will find yourself among a crowd. It is, therefore, not a bad thing. But standing out of the crowd is what truly matters. It is the most important consideration for anyone who finds themselves among many people.

Making a difference wherever you are matters most. If you sit nonchalantly among the crowd, you go nowhere. The act of taking the first step is what separates winners from losers. Greatness is often not about grand gestures, but about consistently choosing to do the little things with excellence.

“Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person.” — Mother Teresa

At times, when we talk about making a difference, people begin to reflect on their backgrounds. But the truth is, your background doesn't define you. What matters is not where you come from, but where you're going and where you want to be. You are not your past—you are your potential.

If you realize there is something you love doing, make time for it. Perfection is not attained overnight. It is a result of continuous preparation and practice. Excellence is not a destination; it is a journey that never ends.

"Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing." — Pelé

You don’t need to complain, explain, or make excuses when the opportunity comes to make a difference. Put in effort in whatever you do—whether you are asked to do it or doing it for yourself. Know yourself. Work on both your weaknesses and strengths. No one can say they have no weaknesses, nor can one say, "I have no strength." Look deep within and you’ll find something you can do effortlessly—that is your advantage.

"Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom." — Aristotle

But when you realize you’re struggling to do something that shouldn’t take much effort, act quickly. No one was born with a "perfection tag" on their back. This means that if you truly wish for it, you can achieve it. It is essential to strive because every action is triggered by either desire or fear. In everything, seek the best—not mediocrity.

"Excellence is not a skill, it is an attitude." — Ralph Marston

To stand out, learn to look for the best in others. It will help you discover the best in yourself because your conscience will be clear, filled with positive thoughts instead of negativity. Also, develop a spirit of gratitude and learn to appreciate others. Gratitude allows you to understand that every step forward is a step toward something greater than your current situation.

"Gratitude turns what we have into enough." — Aesop

If you really want to achieve something, be prepared to go the extra mile. Those who succeed are the ones willing to do what others won’t. Those who achieve greatness are often not the most gifted, but the most determined.

"The extra mile is never crowded." — Wayne Dyer

Remember, standing out is not about outshining others; it is about shining in your unique way. It’s about becoming the best version of yourself and inspiring others to do the same. In a world where many are content to blend in, dare to be different.

“Why fit in when you were born to stand out?” — Dr. Seuss

Start today. Don’t wait. Be exceptional. Stand out from the crowd. The world is waiting for your light.


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